October 2013 Archive

Friday Favorite | What we’re working on

Happy Friday everyone! WOW- where did October go?! Geez. This is my favorite time of year. Boots, scarves, the leaves are changing, firepits, and Fall photo shoots! πŸ™‚ We are busy busy busy these days and loving every second of it. We were all caught up on pictures and then all of a sudden we have so much to go through! We’re working hard these days on a wedding, newborn session, family session and engagement session! And there is more to come so we’re feeling very blessed.

Just wanted to give a little sneak peek for sweet baby Judson’s parents. Ohhhhh helloooo there baby fever! Nice to see you again πŸ˜‰ I just loved spending time with this sweet family and can’t wait to share more from this newborn session. Until then…a little peek:

Friday Favorite | Laura & Beau’s McConnell House Wedding

Happy Friday friends! We’re headed to Memphis this weekend for Rachael & David’s wedding! We can’t wait πŸ™‚ Stay tuned for pictures from that. It’s been a busy few months around here and we’re just coming up for air. Can’t wait to share everything we’ve been up to – including today’s gorgeous wedding πŸ™‚ We had such a great time getting to know Laura & Beau and loved this laid back couple. Their wedding was so beautiful and simple. I just loved the little chapel where they were married. Kings Chapel is in Arrington, TN and we just loved shooting here. Their reception was at the McConnell House in downtown Franklin. This place is amazing. Such a great, unique spot for a reception and the food was absolutely incredible. πŸ™‚ Laura & Beau had a wonderful DJ who did a great job getting everyone on the dance floor. We loved working with Josh from High Tone Entertainment!

Check out some of our favorites from their big day:

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Friday Favorite | Tyler & Madison’s wedding weekend

Happy Friday friends! We’re enjoying a much needed vacation this week in Destin, FL! Our friends Tyler & Madison are getting married tomorrow and we can’t wait! It’s sure to be a really fun wedding! We’re so excited for these two lovebirds. It was an honor to take their engagement pictures – and yes, they really are this cute allll the time. πŸ˜‰ We can’t wait to be guests at a wedding. Happy wedding weekend you two!

Abi & Omar’s Nashville engagement session

Hey there! We had such a great time with Abi & Omar when we met up in 12th South for their engagement session. It was the perfect location – as Abi & Omar live close to the area and spend a lot of their time here. We love this area of Nashville and it was actually the first time we’ve ever done pictures here. We’ll definitely be using the 12 South area more often for pictures!

Abi and I were in the same sorority at UT (a long time ago ;)) so it was great to see her again! She and Omar are totally adorable and so much fun! After their engagement session we grabbed a couple of drinks together and got to know them better. Their wedding is going to be FUN. πŸ™‚ Thank you guys so much for hanging out with us! We can’t wait for the big day!

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Lessons from my dad’s passing

Forgive me for the heavy post but there are some things that must be said… we’ll get back to babies and weddings next week- we promise πŸ™‚

It’s been two weeks since my dad passed away and undoubtedly the longest two weeks of my life. We’re back in Nashville after a week spent in Atlanta. We packed up the car first thing on Friday Sept. 20th after receiving a phone call Thursday night that my dad was in the hosptial with a very bad case of pneumonia. I spoke with the nurse and she explained to me his condition in a 30 minute phone call. I’ll never forget how patient she was as I asked questions. I needed to know everything. She very seriously said ‘Leslie, your dad is very, very ill’ and I knew then that we needed to get to Atlanta as soon as possible.

After everything that has happened, I feel the need to write and write some more. I have so many things I need to say and so many lessons have been learned in such a short period of time.

My dad went into the hospital on Thursday September 19th around 11:00 a.m. and by Saturday night shortly after midnight he was gone.

bless the lord oh my soul

In order to somewhat understand what I went through in that week, you’ll need to know a few things…

I am my dad’s only child. During my childhood we certainly had our share of hard times but for the most part from the time I was born until right after I graduated high school our lives were full of great memories. He was at every cheerleading competition to cheer me on and was constantly behind the camera documenting every minute. He was very involved in my life. My love for photography is directly tied to my dad. He documented my every move as a child. I can’t thank him enough for that. When my parents divorced, he did everything he could to create memories with me- took me deep sea fishing, to Washington D.C. and Charleston, whisked me away to New York for a weekend to see a concert. He was spontaneous and loving. When I went off to college, I imagine it was very difficult for him to not have me around to keep him busy. Without going into too much detail, we went through almost 12 years of not having a very close relationship. There were many, many disappointments and a lot of heartache.

Β The grief. The guilt.

For those that know me and knew my dad– I won’t sugar coat it to say we had a perfect relationship because it was far from it. We went through some really terrible times together and more recently it was a painful, confusing time. A lot of those feelings are what make it so hard in his passing.Β He only held Davis twice. Once – a couple of days after he was born and again this past Christmas.

It’s pretty scary to me how easy it was for me to cover all the good memories with the bad ones. Unfortunately in the past couple of years, the hard times overshadowed the good times. Now that I’m focusing on the good times- I’m remembering so many things I had forgotten. What a blessing that is!

God gives us lessons in everything.

I’ve been feeling this overwhelming sense of change in my heart. The past week has taught me to focus on the lessons, the good times, the memories and the love. In the midst of a time when it’s so easy to focus on the hurt, the fear, the guilt, the bad times and the grief… I choose to focus on the opposite. But make no mistake about it…it’s a choice.

It comes in waves. The pain creeps up through my stomach, makes me dizzy and nauseous. And then it subsides and I remember something great…like riding on my dad’s shoulders in Disney World and him teaching me to drive in his Suburban.

The greatest lesson so far…

Life is too short.Β How many times have you said this? I know I have. We say it…but do we act on this belief? I know for me, in the past year I’ve been feeling some tugs on my heart to repair things with my dad. And I never got around to it. I let the pain control my heart. And I’m here to tell you- that’s no place to live. We are truly not gauranteed tomorrow. I should have listened to the feelings I had on my heart and I should have acted. I should have swallowed my pride. I have much to learn about forgiveness. And one thing I’m learning, is that even after he’s passed, I’m still working on forgiving him. And I’m also working on the part where I forgive myself. Forgiveness doesn’t happen over night.

I will never get the chance to pick up the phone and call a truce with my dad. I will never get to tell him that I love him. He will never hold Davis again. These are the thoughts my mind can’t quite comprehend right now.

I just know it will take time to heal. I like to think my dad is in heaven and watching me work through these really hard, confusing feelings. Sometimes it feels like he’s saying ‘I know. I know. And it’s ok’

I like to think that every time I am behind the camera documenting someone’s life he’ll be up there so proud that he influenced me in that way.Β As I spent hours going through pictures last week to display at his memorial service, I was reminded yet again why I take pictures. It is a priceless thing to hold a printed picture of something that happened so long ago. Those memories of my dad and I deep sea fishing — of him holding me on his shoulders at Disney World– are forever written on a photograph that I can hold and touch and look at for the rest of my life. There is nothing better than that.

So Dad, if you can hear me… I love you and I’m sorry.

he gives me peace

 

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